You will recall from part 1 that my second favorite tricky fix is on the subject of money or lack of.  I know this is a common worry and belief for many.  My grandfather was a product of the Great Depression.  He had a very strong belief in lack in all areas because of his experiences and upbringing.  That thinking gets passed down through the generations until someone stands up and shakes their crappy bra out the window and yells “ This bra doesn’t fit and I am NOT going to wear it!!”  ( so to speak) or in this case -this belief does not fit…AT ALL!!  You can be the one to break the cycle of poverty and struggle in your family and divert the experience of your children to one of wealth, success and abundance in all areas of their lives.  Feels pretty good doesn’t it?  Now this fix will require  an overall change in the subject of Money in general and also a couple constant prods to keep things spinning in the right direction.  You first need to shake any preconceived ideas you have or are aware of on the topic.  These may be in the flavor of…

… You have to work hard for a little bit of money

…there isn’t enough money to go around

( this may rear it’s ugly head in the form of hatred or annoyance at the rich, wealthy or just Billionaires in general.)

…there is never enough money

…there will never be enough money

…money is the root of all evil

These are some of the nasties that will lead you to never having to worry about having money or wealth as you are repelling it like a giant can of Deep Woods Off! 

If God is our limitless source of all things then one thing should not be harder to come by than another.   God says there is no hierarchy of difficulty or greatness. So…why not money?

Let go of any dogma or guilt or limiting beliefs you may have for whatever reasons surrounding money.  Money is energy and energy is what we co-create so why shouldn’t you create money in your life the way you would create anything else?

Every day proclaim that you are debt free.  Know and declare that God is your limitless source ( not your job, your spouse, your parents…) Proclaim that you and your family live high on the land and lend and not borrow.  By proclaiming this while it is not yet true and thanking God in advance for these things you throw the open the doors and windows of your life to receive all that God has to offer you. 

Here is another easy but constant thing I do that you can easily add to your day. Each time you write you a check or spend money proclaim that you always have more money coming in than going out and thank God in advance for this gift.  This replaces for me the worry that would accompany any spending even though it was unwarranted.  My fear of lack of money from past experiences and passed down beliefs would cause me to worry anytime any money was  going out.  This thinking creates fear and lack.  By affirming that I always have more money coming in than going out no matter what the situation I allow the abundance to flow in.  Now, I am not talking about going crazy and binge shopping but knowing that you are taken care of in light of any situation.  Faith.  I heard someone ( Joel Osteen?)say that when they would even see something they would normally think they couldn’t afford they should say instead “ Good thing I’m rich and I can easily afford that”.  All these games and adjustments help turn you from lack to abundance. 

I have a memo line option on my online checking bill pay app.  In each memo on my online checks and any actual hand written checks I write “Thank you!”  What I am really doing is reminding myself of my source and saying, “ Thank you God that you are my limitless source and that we always have more money coming in than going out”.  These tricks may seem small and silly but they can be just what you need to turn things around and start having a better financial situation in your life.  The possibilities are endless. 

If you are open to something silly play the valley girl game with yourself or a friend.  My girlfriend and I used to do this sometimes on a walk when we were trying to shift or create something.  It’s especially great for things that seem serious or scary as it is completely ridiculous and takes you out of your fear.  We all remember the valley girl style of speaking and if you don’t I am sure that youtube.com is rich with examples! Talk in your valley girl voice and turn the situation that you want to change around completely then add 50-100%.  An example I recently used was with my daughter.  I was telling her how to play this great game and make it a powerful tool.  I used the example of my weight since she knows I have been struggling with my weight for 15 plus years.  I recently lost some weight but I am still 20 pounds from where I want to be.  So I turned it around and said in my very convincing valley girl speak, “ Oh my gawd, I am getting so skinny! All my friends are worried about me. They all think that I am getting too skinny.  They are all harping on me “ you are getting too skinny! We are worried about you, you are going too far, don’t lose anymore weight”  Oh my gawd they are just sooo jealous of me! I am wasting away”

Not even an hour later some friends of ours that we hadn’t seen for a couple years stopped over to pick up some furniture we were getting rid of and the woman said “ Oh my God! You have lost so much weight! You are getting too skinny, you shouldn’t lose any more weight you are wasting away!” I kid you not! My daughter just stood there staring with her mouth hanging open.  Thank you God! Lesson ingrained!!  Oh I loved being amazing to my teenage daughter!

Use this game to shift into financial gain and security.  Complain in your valley girl voice about how rich you are.  “ Oh my Ga, I am so filthy rich! It’s so ridiculous.  Everything I want …boom I just buy it!  Money comes at me from the strangest places it’s like I am a freaking wealth magnet.  I know it’s so crazy.  Don’t like hate me because I’m so rich.” Channel some Nene Leakes ( again youtube.com) “I am rich…bitch!” have fun with it.  The more fun you have the more powerful it will be. 

I remember reading in a book about change that when a large ship is heading in a direction and needs to change direction it doesn’t just have one huge rudder that flips it immediately in the new direction.  This would just snap the rudder.  Large ships have many small rudders that each adjust accordingly so that slowly and elegantly the ship can smoothly, and gradually change direction without experiencing the excess force of resistance a drastic switch would cause.  These little tricks, hacks and games are your small rudders to get you going in the direction you want to be headed. 

“The definition of magic is unbelievable, but happening!”

Tim Linhart

 


Comments

03/25/2017 7:23am

Our lives are full of spontaneity and surprises. There will be moments wherein we'll need to cheat or trick our lives. But sometimes, our lives need total change. We need to conform to the current status of the society or our desires drive to change. I myself have been wanting to change my life. I don't want to live in the slums someday. I want to grow richer and own everything I want. But I know deep inside that I need to work for it. Life is full of magic, but it's also full of illusions. Thank you for sharing this post!

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10/01/2017 7:30pm

You have a very positive outlook in life. Your mentality towards money is something all people should try to emulate. People become more and more miserable as they try to earn more money because they start leaving out their family and other people out of the equation. They become too selfish to even think of others that is why their money and possessions seems little of worth. What you do with your money is what dictates its worth. If you spend your money with intentions to enrich your life and others then that money will be worth more than its financial value.

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